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the ADHD person

Hello. This is a blog, though it is a bit like a reply message to Seoin's recent blog.


Hello Seoin. I read your blog, and I know who that boy you are talking about. He was in the same class in 2nd grade, and he did act as you said in your blog. However, I think that people hating him and talking about him is mean, and might become bullying. He isn't ADHD because he wants to, and personally, I think he is a nice person if you look closely. Also, I was a close friend of his in 2nd grade; At first, I became friends because everyone was mean to him, and I felt pity. But he is really a nice person, just not able to control his feelings easily. His parents are really nice, and he becomes kind when there is a friend for him. I think it is wrong to accuse him of being 'violent' or 'bad' and talk about him behind his back. He probably is having a hard time standing all the hatred he gets just because he is ADHD. It's like disability discrimination (this is jang-ae-in cha-beeul, and this came out when I searched in google), but it's not the body that is having problems, it's the mind.


You might think of me as weird for standing up for a boy who acts strangely and throws stuff, but as I said, he is a nice person when people aren't talking roughly to him and glaring at him. I don't mean you to do this, Seoin, but I personally wish somebody would become his friend, and your classmates will be nice to him. I don't know how your class thinks and acts about him, so I can't make you do this, but please don't be harsh to him; I'm not saying to be friends with him or anything, and I do recommend you to not talk to him at all. But as I was close to him for a year, I know him well; and I recommend you to not retort at him, or talk about him in a bad way. In 2nd grade, the teacher was extra-nice to him, and he started to become better and better. If everybody else doesn't act harsh to him, he will behave well, too.


Also, I think you might misunderstand, but I'm not bragging that I was his friend, and I'm not trying to make you upset. I'm just telling you that he can be a good person. Again, I'm sorry if you were upset or anything.


PS: I don't remember you in 2nd grade! What class were you in???? I don't think there was a jeon-hack-sang, though I can't remember for sure. (I'm was in class 2-7)


PSPS: It's not like he was a boyfriend (eww); he was just a friend (besides, I was 2nd grade!) so people, don't think I'm weird or smt.


PSPSPS: This was actually a comment for Seoin's blog, and I figured that this can be a blog, too. kk


PSPSPSPS: Grammarly says that the blog is joyful, and this is NOT joyful! (probably the only serious blog I wrote)

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Seoin Lim
Seoin Lim
Dec 06, 2021

Hello, Eugene, I know perfectly well that he is not mean nor bad. You must know that I share every feeling toward my peai friends. Surely, you do not oppose the idea that I was surprised when I became same class as him?

He is a very unfortunate case. As I see him every day, I feel sorry for him. But what can I do? What I was saying in my blog was that people are pained by him(fact) and he surely pains me too(fact). Eugene, I know that you care a lot about people, and you’re one of the kindest people I’ve ever met.

However, what I believe is that he should not be always so understood. Yesterday, he…

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